5 Reasons Why You Are Still Single

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With Mercury just coming out of retrograde, as well as the first Supermoon of 2020 happening a day ago--if you’re single, this may be a testy or sensitive time. You may be asking yourself why you’re not good enough, why you are alone, or why no one wants to date you. There are plenty of reasons why this could be, and doesn’t necessarily imply that NO ONE wants to be with you or that you aren’t good enough. In fact, this is one of the most optimistic and hopeful times of the year to find love--as the Super moon guarantees fresh and bright beginnings. However--there are a few things you can consider in order to figure out why you’re still single and how to change that, if that's what you want.

#1 Living in the past

This is a common issue a lot of people have, which holds them back from meeting someone new or actually turns people off and leaves them by their lonesome. If you haven’t fully let go of or are still invested in a previous relationship--you are closing yourself off to the opportunity of meeting someone or letting someone new in. No one wants to be second best and someone’s rebound when they aren’t ready to give them 100% of themselves. So rethink your feelings and actions and see if you really want to find someone new, or if you need to rekindle something old. Whatever feels right, but you can’t be half in half out!

#2 Expectations that are way too high

We all need to have standards. We have all envisioned at one point or another, what our ideal and perfect person would look, act, and seem like. However, perfection is not a realistic expectation. If your expectations of a human being are simply too much, you probably will stay single. No one has everything. You have to sum up the most important qualities and characteristics you feel are necessary in a person and for the rest--give it a chance and see what happens.

#3 Negative energy

If you believe in the Law of Attraction, then you know that whatever you put out is what you get back. It’s strongly based on energy, desire, and outlook. Therefore, if you have a negative energy or outlook, chances are--this will reflect in other areas of your life. People can sense bad energy, so there is no surprise that you could either be attracting the wrong kind of people or no people at all. It becomes draining and exhausting to be around people who are constantly negative so you may want to reevaluate the positive and hopeful side of you and put that out into the universe. You’d be surprised what the universe gives you back once you change your mindset. You begin to see more attractive, likeable, and like a “catch”.  

#4 Self sabotage

Often times, when you go through a tough period or just have emotional baggage--you find it more difficult than others to start and/or maintain a healthy and stable relationship. You find it more difficult than others to believe in the good in people, due to previous circumstances in your life. You compare the past with the present constantly and find yourself not as loveable and worthwhile for no logical reasons at all. Many people cannot handle being with someone like this and don’t have the patience, time, or desire to “heal” you of your sabotage and continuously try to prove you wrong for you only to doubt them again. You must let go of the past, accept your present, and work towards a better and more healthy future--with or without someone.

#5 Wrong timing 

You could be single simply because the right person hasn’t come along yet! This is the simplest of all the possibilities and in this case--there’s not much you can do at all! You can focus all your positive energies on yourself and make sure the other points aren’t ones that you are also suffering from or can improve.

What else could you do?

In the meantime, what you could do is get some valuable and more detailed insight from a professional psychic dealing with relationship and personal love readings. This can give you more guidance on what you should be doing, when you can expect someone to come into your life, and/or where you should be looking! If this is something you wonder about, take a few minutes to get valuable answers immediately!


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